After obtaining the values as rkmcswain indicates you'd probably need to convert them from the current UCS to the position / scale / rotation / mirror of the xref object. This so you can apply the converted values to the next DWG after opening. Unsure if the trans function could work. It's supposed to be able to convert 3d points from one UCS to another: e.g.
Code:
(trans pt 1 en) ;pt is the point to convert, en is the ename of the xref like with (car (entsel))
This converts the current UCS (that's why the 1) to the object UCS of the xref - usually 0,0 is "moved" to the xref/block's insertion point and rotations applied to Z Y & X axses as needed. I'm unsure how any mirrors will work - but you probably don't have any for xrefs.